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Discernment, it is how we stop fooling ourselves!

August 09, 20251 min read

Ever notice how your reactions say more than you think?

Someone says something—and suddenly, you're irritated, shut down, or overly polite. But when we pause and observe our response, something powerful happens.

We start to hear what’s really going on inside.

At first, we catch the usual suspects: self-protection, denial, the urge to avoid or control. But if we listen a little deeper, there's something softer underneath—our true desires. The ones we rarely speak. The ones we sometimes hide from ourselves.

That’s where discernment comes in.

It’s not about overanalyzing—it’s about noticing, gently. Like how we might say things with double meanings to avoid something unwanted. Or convince ourselves and others we’re “fine” when we’re not. These hidden patterns are almost invisible... until we choose to really look.

When we do, we stop fooling ourselves.

And we start hearing the voice of our inner spirit—that steady, kind presence that always knows what's best for us.

From there? Our choices feel different.

They lead to more gratitude. More satisfaction. More wonder and belonging. Less ego, less fear, less second-guessing. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about being honest. Open. Curious. Free.

Because when we live from that place, we can’t help but feel… grateful. And ready for more.

At first, admitting we’ve been fooling ourselves feels scary and then w realize it is the escape we have been searching for!

I can gently help you free yourself!

Schedule a convenient time to learn more here.

With love and appreciation,

Jodi


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Jodi Hinkle

With 20+ years in Corporate America, Jodi’s decision to embrace the creation of HerQuest is the cumulative result of her professional experience in developing strategic business relationships and her personal desire to Empower Women.

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About the Founder of HerQuest

Hi, my name is Jodi! I believe that there is only one mandatory ingredient to creating the life you want... It is to understand that your solution MUST include HAVING FUN! I believe each Woman's Quest includes FINDING THE INSPIRATION OF JOY in order to build a personal HAPPILY EVER AFTER!